This was a question from a self-advocate. “Why do you believe in me?”
I thought the question so profound. She went on, “You believe in me no matter what.”
I suppose I’ve never really considered believing in someone a task or obligation. I believe that everyone can be and do whatever they want to make their lives better, happier and healthier. There are no barriers in believing in someone. I just believe in the people around me. There are no limits to caring. It’s also not just for people with disabilities – it’s everyone I connect with. Believing in someone means you accept everything about them. It is knowing that you are just a by-stander on their journey. There may be disappoints, detours, failures for the person. There may be joy, success, and happiness too. In every turn, you remain faithful – the touchstone for the confidence someone may need to keep going or change. Do I feel for the person when they make a mistake or the choice hurts them? Yes, but I remain steadfast in the faith that they can count on me to be here when they need me. It is not much to give to truly believe in those you care about. This devotion is automatic. I don’t think about it – it’s something I do from the heart. I don’t take things personally when they drift out of my life. Their journey led them in a different direction. I’m happy when they return and remain devoted in my believe in them. That’s what happens when you are on a life journey. Empowerment, advocacy, leadership, compassion and caring all have its highs and lows. In the end, do I believe you can do it all and more. Absolutely…too infinite. And know I’ll be right there to the very end.